I was the girl decked out all in white with a flower tucked behind my ear, sitting at the feet of a guru. He gave me a new name, a secret name which roughly translated to the voice of the mother.

This was disturbing. My mother’s voice was the last voice I’d want to hear coming out of my mouth, and I was not yet a mother myself. And as for the Divine Mother…she was way way out of my league. I simply could not conjure a benign maternal presence.

And then there were the astrologers who looked at my chart, at Chiron the wounded healer stuffed in with five other planets in Virgo into the third house of words and communication. Hmm, they’d say, tapping the pie slice of paper. The voice of the wound.

F*ck you, I’d think as I left. Who the hell wants to be the voice of the wound? I wanted to be one of the shiny girls. You know…Sun Ra, Kali Rainbow, or Ananda Kiss My Ring and leave your love donations in the basket by the front door.

But I wasn’t. I’m not.

So one night I was sitting out on the front porch under a star drenched sky when a FedEx truck rumbled down the gravel driveway. It seemed odd so late at night, but maybe it was an Amazon Prime thing.

Special delivery for you, honey. 

He tossed a package over the adobe wall, whistling, keeping time with the wind in the willows. The return address in purple ink: From the voice of the wound.

 Hey wait, I called. She doesn’t live here anymore.

He leaned out his window and winked. That’s what she said you’d say, and disappeared under the soft shushing of starlight falling to earth.

Open me, she said.

Drop dead, I said, and she laughed soft as a hummingbird.

Go on, there’s a gift inside.

Yeah, that’s what my uncle used to say before he unzipped his pants.

But it was easier than I thought to get inside, following the arrows pointing down and down and down.

Keep going, she said.

There was nothing inside but darkness. That’s it? This is the gift? I scraped my chair back and began to get up.

Deeper, she said. Deeper.

And then I heard it.

The call of the coyote. The milky mewing of a newborn learning to suck. The sigh of the moon as she blooms and gives birth.

The songs of the whale the blackbird and starfish came pouring out, singing one vast high note of joy, of endless waves of love that conquer grief and loss and despair. It was the song of rainbows arcing over oceans and thunder in the desert. It was every victory song that has ever been chanted, banged, hooted, stomped and hallelujahed. 

Here, she said, handing me a rose. Now sing this.

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This is an excerpt from The Ripening: Essays on Love, Loss, Marriage and Aging
Artworks by Joseph Stella.