My observations, though not conflicting with Dr. Fry, are based on at least 10 years of grandparentage and 40 years of parenthoodness. It is this:
Children cry at least as often as they laugh, if not more.
Oddly, as I get older, I find myself crying more easily, and more often. And I kind of like it. I’m not sure if I laugh more often. But I’ve always been a laugh-er.
If we are to take any message from Dr. Fry’s research and my personal findings, it might be that adults would probably laugh again the way they laughed as children … if they let themselves cry more often, as they did when they were children.
I grow old. I cry more.
It is a gift.
Lovely! Yes, I’m all for it! More laughter, more tears, more allowing ourselves to express our feelings.